p-e-r-f-e-c-t-l-y-f-r-a-g-i-l-e asked: thank you, so much seriously. i got more advice from you than i did from my mother!

I am so glad I was able to help. Let me know how it goes, okay? ^^

p-e-r-f-e-c-t-l-y-f-r-a-g-i-l-e asked: my sister is being bullied and i have no idea what to do. i found out a while a go and told her tutor, she stopped it for a while but it's started again, she's really down and i feel i can't do anything to help. please, please help me.

Maybe go to the principal? In this situation, I’d say its the school board’s responsibility to make sure stuff like this isn’t happening. You could always try to start an anti-bullying program for your school. You are NOT helpless. I know it feels that way right now. But there’s always something you can do to help.

Anonymous asked: My teacher keeps coming on to me, Im a guy. And I couldn't resist temptation. She is gorgeous. We had sex in the closet after school. Now I regret it. What should I do??

Oh, dear. What a predicament. Well…for starters, tell the principal. She should be fired. And secondly, try dropping her class. You want to stay as far away from temptation as possible.

Anonymous asked: Shallow as in she accused me of spreading some obviously fake rumor about her when I clearly did not. So yeah, she did say however that she wondered if she likes me back in the same way I like her. She said she didn't know. To make things worse, I think I should mention she's got a twin sister and she never goes out of their house without her. That makes hanging out with her out of the question. It is hopeless, me and her. I just love her. And I sometimes wish I didn't. :(

I’m sorry, dear. And you could always say “Hey, I’d really like to hang out with you just me and you for once. Is that cool?” or something like that. Just be happy with who you are, where you are, what you have, and see the bright side in it all. :)

Anonymous asked: So I'm the girl asking for advice three months ago. We did fight again, me and her. She's mad at me for a shallow reason and that made me mad at her too. So it's been exactly two months since we fought. We just graduated from high school and we gave each other letters. In her letter, she told me that I'll always be the only person who understands her and that I'll always have a place in her heart. We never got a chance to talk properly again. And that sucks 'cause I love her. I really do.

Shallow reason? Such as what? It sounds as if she loves you as friend, but the best thing you can do is see that she will forever have changed your life and she may be your first love but she won’t be your last.

phantasmag0ric asked: My girlfriend dumped me after almost 7 months last night, because of distance issues. I wouldn't come out, or tell my parents about her either. Because I know they wouldn't approve, and it would be over. I'm having a hard time pulling myself together, but I'm usually really strong. Do you have any suggestions as to how I could get over her? :/

Getting over someone is never easy. Especially with long-term relationships. My suggestion for you is to focus on her flaws. I know it sounds stupid, but the more bad you think about her, the harder it is for your feelings to stay alive. Also, I can understand why you wouldn’t come out to your parents. I didn’t come out to my parents until this year. And I’m surprised I did. They were un-accepting at first. BUT as time went by, they started to realize they can’t change who I am or who I love. So, just wait for a good time. And approach them when you feel its the best time. Love is hard. But just remember, they’re your parents. And they should love you unconditionally through whatever. Even if they don’t approve.

Anonymous asked: This is the same as the last question, I asked her if she would ever date a girl and she said no :( It really sucks but I know she can't help who she likes.

Well, love, some people aren’t into the same sex. But if that’s the case, then like I said, plenty of other people are. It may take time to get over her, but eventually, you’ll find someone you want to be with. Don’t look for love. Let it come to you. And all will be well. :)

Anonymous asked: thank you very much, although my instinct is to just be like "BUT I WANT HERRR" haha thank you <3 :)

Hahaha of course! I hope you DO get to be with her. :3 Let me know how it goes. I wish you all the luck in the world, my dear. :D

Anonymous asked: I definitely think I am attracted to girls, I started really being into them before I liked her. I'm so nervous though! I don't want her to think I'm crazy :/ And she is 19 and I'm 16 :/

She won’t think you’re crazy. Homosexuality isn’t a disease. XD And the worst thing that can happen is she can tell you she isn’t attracted to females. Homophobia is something our country will hopefully get over in time. If that happens, then you’ll know. And you can find another lovely lady. :)

Anonymous asked: I'm in love with a girl who I met through finding out that she was actually dating my "boyfriend" while I thought I was. We found out we both got cheated on really elaborately and had one really good conversation. She likes boys though obviously, I thought I only liked boys too but she's perfect. wtf should I even do

Do you think you might be attracted to females, or is this a crush thing? Either way, only one thing to do. You’ve got to be honest with her. Ask her if she’s ever had a girl crush. Start small. Hang out. Become closer friends. And see if it could go somewhere. But make sure she’s what you want before you throw your heart on a limb for her. If not her, there are a million other ladies out there you could be with. :)